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Well Done, Woman!

January 26, 2021

Well Done

I met a woman at a Well in South Carolina. And just like the one in the Bible, she’s worth meeting and dying for, and worth me resurrecting a blog for. Her name is Nations Myers, Director of the Potter’s House, Saluda, a non-profit serving children and families in need. And today she’s running for city council.

The first time I met her, I was running for cover, mad at God and disappointed in myself. Overnight and underwater, we had joined thousands in our Louisiana community whose homes and jobs were flooded. That was just the year before, the week of my last post, and before my keyboard locked up and my pen dried out.

We picked up the pieces, put our house back together, stuck a for sale sign in the wet ground, and landed in the Carolinas.
We left reluctantly, and I didn’t go quietly. I’d yelled in the car to my husband when he first mentioned the move, “What do you MEAN, God’s telling us to move to South Carolina? He wouldn’t do that, couldn’t do that. This is the only home our girls have ever known, and it’s the last place I saw my Momma. I’m not going anywhere.”

I stuck to my guns and turned the radio up before stating, “God would have to write South Carolina before my eyes, but I’m not looking and I’m not listening. Mark my words.”

But he had the last word. “Well, take a look at the car in front of us. Our headlights high beamed on the license plate ahead. “South Carolina,” it said.

I had plans, dreams, goals, and I just had new wood floors put in my house, so that wasn’t gonna work for me. We got home, and he quietly added, “What if our moving has nothing to do with us, but everything to do with our girls?” Our next generation.

I flashed back almost 30 years and saw my 5th grade self,
kicking and screaming, having to move out of state. Right before meeting the cutest blond-haired, blue-eyed Louisiana boy I’d ever seen. The same one staring back at me and glancing over at our daughters.

Needless to say, a few months later, I was a smiling, pretending mess when I met Ms. Myers.

And then every week I sat at her table, volunteering to help others, but really letting God help me. Spinning on the Potter’s wheel and sipping coffee at a Well at our round table discussions. Listening to stories of faith and hearing her share dreams and vision for her community. Ones that looked like Heaven. On earth. That had nothing to do with building a platform, but everything to do with building God’s Kingdom. For our next generation.

She has a faith I’m thirsting for. We often hear it talked about, but rarely see it played out. Yet I’ve been given a front row seat to watch Nations Myers walk it out.

It inspires, but it challenges. With one Jesus-sized hug, she’ll simultaneously squeeze the Martha out and embrace the Mary within. And drown out any doubt of God’s goodness and faithfulness.

As a single mother, God used her to rescue two beautiful little girls. And today they call her Mom, and God calls them His. Both adopted by her and by Him.

Since then, I’ve jumped through a few hoops with her, and even high-jumped over some mice for her, while cleaning a widow’s house–for Him.

Pure religion, caring for the widow and the orphan, can look messy and dirty (James 1:27). But this woman at the Well will love you–and serve you–until you feel clean, and accurately identified as a beloved daughter, embraced by the Father. And renewed as a child of the King. With open arms and as an empty vessel, prepared to be filled.

And I’ve watched God fill.
When I said, “How can it be done?” And then faithlessly thought, “I know what’s in our hands, it isn’t a lot, and it isn’t enough.” But her faith inspires and it challenges, and as she says, “How can God not?”

During her back-to-school drive to help area kids in need, I dropped pencils into small paper bags at the Potter’s House, wishing for more, but believing for less. Until I heard the honk and then ran to watch a big rig back up, and pour out hundreds of brand new back packs, already filled up to the zipper. I dropped the paper brown bag in my hand and watched all of her multiplied faith before me.

The same faith that sent her into schools, to wash children’s feet, before fitting every child with a pair of new shoes.

The same faith that drives through slums in the dark of Christmas eve night, dropping off toys and bikes.
Where most grown men won’t go, she’s already been.

She canvased her community during the census, while I pancaked my couch during this Covid pandemic. She was ensuring that everyone was counted and finding funds for her neighbors. Making sure they knew that in God’s eyes, they count.

She doesn’t see background, or color or creed, she simply sees a neighbor in need.
She’s hugging the lonely and healing the broken. Carrying the gospel, desiring to see, children get fed and women set free. Ones like you. And like me.

Here’s a Woman at the Well I can walk beside and get behind.
It’s an honor and a privilege to highlight this Well woman, who may never be noticed by the world, but who has all the attention of Heaven.

And her faith is so worth sharing. “Well done, Woman. Well Done.”

Please feel free to subscribe and share. I look forward to sharing more of her back story, and maybe even your story. At the Well—where faith is better shared.


“The woman left her water jar beside the well and ran back to the village, telling everyone. “Come and see a man who told me everything I ever did. Could this be the Messiah?” They came out of the town and made their way toward him (John 4:28-30 NIV).

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Filed Under: Love at the Well, Serve at the Well, Well Done Woman Tagged With: faith

YOUR WORDS MATTER—Sharing the POWER OF WORDS and the GIFT OF FRIENDSHIP

August 11, 2016

1Your words matter.  Do you KNOW how MUCH your words matter and what your friendship means?  Do you really know your worth?  You should.  But just in case you haven’t been told lately, there’s no better month than August to remind you.

Because August is officially Friendship month!  And friendship is everything to me.  It’s why the SONshine Box was created (if you don’t know about it, then check it out here).  And friendship is also the foundation of Women at the Well—where faith is better shared.

I don’t think it’s coincidental that just this month I experienced how valuable our words can be to a friend—or even to a stranger who quickly becomes a friend. 

Recently I sat at a large round table at a weekend women’s conference. We were all dressed in our best, and maybe some of us were hiding our mess under well-worn smiles.  Even trying to cover up laugh lines and creases that hinted of late-night cries.

But many bravely cracked through facades and broke unspoken codes, sharing hopes and dreams with complete strangers.  Inviting vulnerability and authenticity to pull up a seat, so we could shake our pom poms of kind words to spur each other on.

On the last day, the one with the brightest smile and the loudest laugh quietly leaned over  to say, “I just want to thank you for your smile and kind words yesterday.”

I looked at her like my little girl looks up at me when I use words that are as big as her hair bows and way beyond her vocabulary.  And like my little one, I sat there dumbfounded, but delighted.

I fumbled for words like I do when I hurriedly search for my keys—that are in my hand.  Or for my glasses—that are on my head.

And then it was as if God was sitting there with us, sliding His Kingdom keys across the table and placing a vase full of beautiful flowers before us. I selected sweet sentences that would leave a lasting scent, offered petals of love, and spoke key words that couldn’t be mine.

“How could I NOT smile at you?”  I asked. “You’re SO loving and encouraging to others.”  Then her eyes whispered hidden hurts as she spoke, “But if you only knew what was going on inside of me.”

I gently, yet firmly, responded, “Well, you need to know that you’re the sound of clapping hands and the feel of a warm hug to those around you. God loves you so much.”

Her face lit up, but then she paused in disbelief before finally catching up to the truth. I caught a glisten of a tear and a glimmer of hope in her blue eyes as she said, “Will you write that down for me?”

I grinned the answer and found my pen far quicker than I ever find my keys.  And even before the session concluded, she asked me again, “Did you write them down?”

She gave me a “thank you” smile as I slid His words across the table, but kept the priceless moment as a parting gift to me. 

WORDS MATTER GIVEAWAY

You can see why it’s SO important that we celebrate each other.  With our words and our worth.

SO I’m celebrating YOU and the GIFT OF WORDS AND FRIENDSHIP with a giveaway.  You’ll get a chance to win a friendship gift basket at the end of the month.

But in the meantime, share this post with a special friend, or friends, to tell them that their words matter and that their friendship means the world to you.  

Go ahead.  If any of the statements below apply, slide this note across the virtual table to them.  Just to say THANK YOU.  Here goes. 

DEAR FRIEND, THANK YOU:

For words of love and encouragement.

For spending time with me and investing your belief in me.

For connecting your heart to mine.

For your availability and meaningful conversations, the audible ones, and the ones quietly typed out.

For sharing memories and capturing moments with me.

For celebrating me, standing up for me, and cheering me on. (Thank you just as much for being willing to sit down with me when I couldn’t get up.)

For showing me the pure love and kindness of a friend.

For just being YOU.

And AGAIN, THANK YOU for the power of your words—keep saying them. And for prayers I may never even know about—keep praying them.

Enter to win the Friendship Gift Basket.

Friendship Month Giveaway

And if you’re new here, and if we’re not already, LET’S BE FRIENDS!  

I’d love for you to subscribe to the blog, Like us on Facebook, and share us with YOUR friends.  Now enter to win a Friendship gift basket, filled with some of my favorite goodies we’d share during a girlfriend outing. We’d surely share faith stories over coffee (or I’d forgive you if you ordered tea), and talk about the books we’re reading, the blessings we’re journaling, and then I’d listen for your “Yes!” when I asked if you had time to stroll through my favorites—Hobby Lobby and Charming Charlie’s (so we could get our creativity and our bling on).

(Includes the pink journal in the picture, Starbucks, Hobby Lobby, and Charming Charlie’s $10.00 gift cards, and books by my favorite authors who are FRIENDS. *$100.00 value in all, but priceless time well spent.)

HAPPY FRIENDSHIP MONTH!

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Filed Under: Love at the Well Tagged With: faith, free gift, friendship, giveaway, happy friendship month, power of words, sharing faith and love, women at the Well

The ABC’s and 123’s of God’s Love 

August 5, 2016

lightstock_ABC'sGod'slove_medium_christieHere’s the repeated phrase I heard all summer and again this morning:  “I’m 100 percent excited and one percent scared. What if nobody likes me?” My soon-to-be kindergarten daughter said this with a painful wince, like she’d just been bitten by a nervous bug.

Like mother like daughter.  I’m four decades in, and I still can’t escape the little school girl within.  While school starts back this week, I just returned from back-to-back weekends at writers’ and speakers’ conferences, where I too felt like the new kid on the block.

Toting notebooks, fresh packs of pens, and pockets full of nervous butterflies. Hustling and bustling among 800 other girls, I mean, women.  Taking in the sounds of heels clicking through lobbies, constant chatter, and the sound of me exhaling and sinking into well-worn chairs.

Although there were countless God conversations that melted my heart and lit up my confidence, there was that one that didn’t.  Why, oh why, do I glide by the positives that were plenty, but stop at the one that was negative?

Here’s the flashback.  I loaded up at the breakfast buffet, scanned the cafeteria for a loner, and then made my way through the maze of women. Carrying my tray—and the familiar thought—I’m 100 percent excited and one percent scared.  What if nobody likes me?

I spotted a table of one, stepped up and said, “Is this seat taken?”  My heavy hands got ahead of my ears as I started to set my tray down before hearing, “I’m sorry, it is.  I’m saving it for a friend.”

“Oh, OK,”  I stammered as I painted on a smile.  And I’d love to tell you I brushed it off, went and gobbled down my food, and happily greeted the day.  But I didn’t.

I walked around the corner, left my tray and my confidence behind, and then hightailed it up to my room to sink into my chair of silly school-girl rejection.  I know.  I know. It wasn’t her.  She was still nice as can be—it was just me.

So I prayed and listened for the response of the Teacher.  Here’s the phrase that ushered me back and welcomes us daily:

When you’re filled with nervousness and insecurity, and even if that seat is taken, just SIT IN MY LOVE.

So that’s what I’m telling both my girls on the first day of school.  Just sit in God’s love. And be on the look-out for the lonely and the timid, and especially those who look like they’ve got nervous butterflies swirling in their tummies.

Then you hightail it over to them and offer a seat right beside you. 

And always be ready to teach them the ABC’s and 123’s of God’s love. Tell them what I’m telling you:

You’re an: Adored, Beautiful Child

1.) Loved by the Father

2.) Redeemed by the SON

3.) and Empowered by the Holy Spirit

There you have it.  The simple ABC’s and 123’s of God’s love.  And they are for ALL of us daughters.

I’m so grateful that whether we’re five or ninety-five, we’re never too old to be taught like a child or too young to receive wisdom from the Teacher.

And thank YOU for allowing me to sit and learn beside you as we share His sweet words of love here at our table.

Feel free to share any of YOUR school-girl moments with me.  And if you haven’t already, subscribe to the Well and go share our site with a friend.  Whether it’s a round table or a circle of women, we are all to be a welcoming Well—where faith is better shared.

“You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and rightly so, for that is what I am.” John 13:13

But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. 1 Peter 3:15

Filed Under: Love at the Well Tagged With: 123's, abc's, daughters, faith, faith like a child, First day of School, God's love, learning

How to trust God–no matter what

July 16, 2016

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“The Dr. said there’s no heartbeat.” My little brother’s words assaulted my ears and blew my mind, leaving my own heart racing and twisting my stomach into a tangle of knots.

A defeated “I’m sorry,” was all I could whisper, but what I wanted to scream was, “WHY God?! I just don’t understand!”

They’d prayed for a baby, believed for healing, and then I received a blessing.  “You’re gonna be an aunt!”   I practically had the whole nursery design completed for them before God cradled and lifted those words back up to Heaven.

And a miracle became a miscarriage and a prayer that was answered turned into a question that wasn’t.

So what do we do when our grim reality collides with God’s limitless ability?  That’s what I pondered as I piled up tissues and collected gifts for the SONshine Box I had never planned to make.

Unlike the gift box, I couldn’t wrap this one up neat, or make all the pieces fit, much less place a pretty bow on top. 

As much as I tried to straighten every crease, smooth out the crinkles and the questions, and then fold in all the right reasons, it still didn’t look right.  Didn’t seem right.  Not even when I taped on His Word.  The result was that life still looked messy and torn.

I couldn’t reconcile why God would give a gift He was just going to take back.

And enough was enough.  My sister-in-law had already battled through PCOS, an endocrine disorder that can bring infertility, and YET like my favorite woman in the Bible, that one with physical issues, she pushed through the obstacles of time, doubt, and fear, and she received her healing.

I was there during a prayer night to hear her cries as Jesus caught her tears and touched her body.  And called her daughter. I imagine her receiving the long-awaited words, “Daughter, your faith has made you well” not long before hearing, “You’re pregnant!”

And I thought of my brother hearing, “Son, you’re going to be a father.”  Those words would have to come from God because he’d already buried both parents in his 20’s.

So again I implored, “God, wasn’t that enough?  Hadn’t we been through enough?  Couldn’t we have just kept this one gift?”

Days later, I trudged up their driveway for her women’s Bible study that she wouldn’t cancel. Carrying my Sonshining gifts and hiding my cloudiest questions.

Still asking, “What do you do, what do you say, when it looks like faith flatlines and dreams die?” I didn’t find the perfect answer, but I watched as God unwrapped a perfect example.

We’d been a cozy five-girl Bible study group, with most of us just wanting to huddle around her that night. To cry.  And then cry some more.  But we didn’t. We couldn’t.  A new girl showed up, so we exchanged quiet smiles and loud, knowing glances instead.

Honestly, I kept waiting for the new one to leave so that us old ones could have a moment to grieve.  But it got late, so we finally pulled out our surprise box of SONshine, and then we watched the real gift arrive.

Because that night my sister-in-law became the gift.  A vessel of God’s light shining forth.  She didn’t tuck away grief and hide disappointment.  She dug deep. Letting His words flow out.  Gently pulling out her pain and reaching for His purpose.

He’d healed her body and her fear, and now was a time to simply draw near.  And grieve.  And breathe.  But even more, to STILL BELIEVE.

She gripped the tassels of His Word—”Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” (Philippians 4:6) Followed by, “Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful.” (Hebrews 10:23)

And she shared how a sign had gone up on her road the very week she’d been tempted to fear during pregnancy.  It said, “Trust in me” with a picture of Jesus. She didn’t know who placed it in the ground, but she knew God tilled the soil for her faith and wrote those words on her heart.

Because it’s easy to trust Him when everything is in place, but trust can only be activated when all we have is grace.

“I told God I would trust Him no matter what, knowing HE is enough,” she said.

He is enough. Yes, enough was enough.  Those words still echo, as I recall rocking in a chair, but sitting at a Well. Watching tears drip and walls fall.  Listening to women, friends and strangers, freely share as He washed over us with buckets of love.

And that’s exactly what we did every week after that, as she poured out her faith and God’s love, encouraging women to surrender fear and to shred shame—and to never give up hope for their miracle.

No wonder ladies went from trickling in to flooding in.  Because she pointed to Him.  And she still does.  Because He was enough.  And He still is.

Even if we weren’t family, she’d still be my friend.  A Woman at the Well who personifies the essence of this site:  “When we share our lives and our hurts, God connects our hearts—to each other’s and to His.”

And that’s why and when we celebrate. And why I’ve made her my FIRST official “Well Done Woman,” here at the Well.

Although that’s reason enough to celebrate, we’re also celebrating another first this month.  The first birthday of her daughter and my niece.

A one-year-old pure gift, all wrapped up in fifteen tiny little pounds.  And though she may be little, she is fierce in faith already.  And she sure is a keeper.

She deserves a story of her own, so I’ll save that one for later. Meanwhile, comment and share your faith and your trust story here as I prepare to share some new SONshine Box ideas soon.  Until then, I’ll sit at the Well with you as we trust and believe–no matter what–because He is enough. 

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Filed Under: Believe at the Well, Love at the Well Tagged With: believe, encouragment in difficulty, faith, Hebrews 10:23, hope, how to trust God, miscarriage, SONshine Box, the sunshine box, trust, unanswered prayer, woman at the well

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